This book is about reducing reactivity and increasing communication. Clarke-Fields acknowledges that parenting is hard and that perfect parenting does not exist. Alongside the insight provided in this book, she offers practical tips, tools, and practices to help parents increase their own self-understanding while building strong connections with their children.

“Your effort in raising good humans will positively impact not just your own family but also your community and generations to come. Children who grow up feeling seen, heard, and loved will be a powerful force for good. Children who know how to solve problems in ways that meet everyone's needs can help evolve the way we interact as humans. Your efforts will have ripple effects.” (Clarke-Fields, p. 162)